Is it easier to be valuable in the society? How to gain value and respect: A quick discussion:
12:27 a.m.
19th Jan, 2022
Hello everybody! How have you been? I wish you all are healthy and fit..As I mentioned day before yesterday that my hands are full of nowadays and I hardly get time to write articles. Because I put my heart and soul into my studies and my professional work.. It’s really pity of me when I can’t get enough time to share my thoughts and new expressions across the globe.. I think my time has finally come to me today and given me a pen to hold in my hand. I hope my readers are going to be shining and looking forward to seeing my today’s content. In today’s discussion I am going to elaborate which things we should actually follow to be highly valuable in the society.
We all want be highly valuable in the society. In my opinion, there is nothing wrong if one has desire to be very valuable in the society. But the problem is that not everybody is being evaluated and considered as a highly respected person in the society. One day I confined myself in the cave and had been exploring the reason behind this And finally I found the answer of my question. .
The main problem of not being valuable person in the society is our lack of skills. Yes, it sounds pretty crap and harsh but very rational..If we make an explicit diagram, we will easily fathom out that only 20% population of our society are actually literate out of 100% percent population in our society. And only 5% people are real educated with degrees out of 20% people. And rest of the 15% percent people are actually uneducated despite having a lot of degrees. So those remaining 15% people of our society are very lazy, self-centered and they have lack of intensity of learning, growing and developing their skills. Now how could they expect getting value and respect from the society? Is it expectable? No, not at all. We should always remember that a person is evaluated by his/her skills, ability and intelligence..Nobody likes any lazy person, no one is fond of inefficient people. One important thing always remember and that is- people will give you value if you have something exceptional quality. If you are someone who never stops learning and continuous working on yourself to expand your knowledge and skill, then you don't have to beg to be valuable and respectable in the society, rather people will be bound to give you value and respect. Without working hard and gaining your knowledge and skills expecting respect and values from the society is really beyond imagination. Be optimistic, be hard-working, be a good learner , be consistent with your work, be the master of your field, add some values in the lives of other people and transform their lives. If you follow my instructions, you will never be burden in our society, rather you will be the most respected, highly precious and the proudest person in the society..
I am sincerely thankful to all my readers for always giving me your precious time. It may be many people will read my article, but unfortunately very least people will follow. . But I believe that if my lesson add some values in one's life at least then my writing is successful.If anybody has any opinion regarding my article, kindly share and I will definitely love to follow you back.
- Dalia .
Is Technology Making Our Lives Easier or Harder?
27th Dec, 2021
12:32 a.m.
Hello everybody! I hope you all are well..Nowadays busyness has become such a common thing in my life that I have to do work really hard to write an article..Since morning to evening I am busy with teaching and my own studies. When sun goes down I completely lose my all strength and my eyes get extremely tired. Even I had already taken a nap from 8.30 to 10.15 pm. I was just getting ready to be off but suddenly I felt like writing a very brief article to brush up my writing skill. Now without wasting a minute let’s kick off..
Few days back, at 4 o'clock in the afternoon, I red a news while I was sitting in my chair on. It was written by a brilliant Journalist and Novelist Mr. Hardware Jacobson. He stated - " The world is creating uneducated people with all the degrees". It means people increasing their degrees but without proper learning, knowledge and right education. I absolutely agree with his statement. So today it is going to be the main content of my article. I hope my all beloved readers have sufficient patience to read it out..
As we all know that technology impacts strongly on our world today. Even it has become the most significant part in our lives..We are so fortunate that modern technology is making our life easier and quicker. For instance, It has become the most powerful source of earning money, making contact with different types of people, learning many things , gaining knowledge, being entertained and so on. Apart from this, modern technology saves many innocent lives also..For example, medical science has found cures for diseases ..On top of that, modern technology has played an amazing role on industries too. It has made industries more efficient, transportation faster and safer.
Although technology is making our life more advanced and more powerful but as we all know every coin has two sides. In the same way, on the other side, technology has a number of negative effects also..For instance, it is making us lazier and unsociable...We order junk food online and we play sports on screens ,but not in the field. Although we may also be able to communicate with people but we have actually forgotten how to talk with people face to face... In addition, We have become so much dependent on technology and internet that we have forgotten to have fresh and healthy organic foods. And the most pathetic thing is that people don't want to do work hard to improve their skills. During the journey of my teaching period I often notice, if I give any homework my students for conversation class to discuss a topic , they collect everything from google and when ask them to explain the topic in details, they are entirely blacked out. Even people are translating their languages and sentences from google dictionary what I personally dislike too much..That's why when I red the statement of Jacobson, I personally supported him and I also think that uneducated people are being created with the degree in the world which is absolutely meaningless education.
To sum up, there are ways in which technology has positive and negative impact on our lives today. But in my opinion, we must balance how to use technology and understand the use of it. Technology can improve many things we want to do but it is very important to use it intelligently and carefully.
I am sincerely thankful to my readers for giving me your valuable time. I hope my statements have been very clear to all of you. . If anybody wants to put your opinion kindly share and I would surely love to hear. -
– Dalia.
How to make your personality highly strong and very impressive:
2.23 am.
29th oct, 2021.
How to make your personality highly strong and impressive:
I strongly believe that we all are profoundly familiar with the word ” PERSONALITY “. If I am not wrong, in my eyes most of the people in the world have an intense desire which is indeed hidden in the corner of their heart and that is to develop highly strong personality..But why are very rare people being successful to enhance this quality in themselves among all the people? Kindly take a look and I would like to see how much you have patience spending just 5 minutes to read this brief but very important discussion.. If you spend only 5 minutes I hope you will not feel regret at the end of the discussion.
First of all, be yourself. Remember, we all are very unique in the world. We all have some special qualities. Then why does it so much catch in my eyes that people are losing their individuality!! If you are still following others then I think you should work on yourself. Go to a quiet place, Identify your uniqueness and strength. If you find it out that it truly needs to brush it up to light up , then go ahead. Because in my opinion, when we are qualitative from the inside of ourselves, it will automatically reflect in front of the people. So, do work on it first..Because I think it is the first step to develop our personality.
Secondly, maintain proper dressing sense. I often hear from many people that we should only be smart internally. Because if we have knowledge, we are smart and intelligent. But always remember, dressing sense is not about fashion trend rather it is a sign of our decentness and humanity which is called manner. If you are highly knowledgeable, but you don't know how to select a suitable dress which fits for you, then your all impressions will devast in a minute...As well as we shouldn't follow the fashion trend. We should only wear a neat and clean dress..And dressing sense and color of your dress should be absolute comfort and suitable which goes on you.
Thirdly, focus on your fitness.It is so unfortunate that most of the people are profoundly hungry of having fast foods. They not only have a worst habit of having fast foods, but also they are the winner of being lazy. If I ask someone - Why don't you do exercise ? He/she responses - " I don't have time etc". But I deeply notice that they waste a lot of time in social media to watch useless videos , play time waster games and so on. Even those people mostly loose their confidence if they need to face the challenge of any kind of situation. But amazingly they have also wish to enhance strong personality. Remember, if you are not fit from the inside, you will look worst and your energy will decline day by day..So , spend time on your health and fitness.
. Next is, be the master of any particular field.. Take a time, think which subject or field often attracts you.Study the subject each and every single. Invest more and more time on that subject and be the master of this field. Remember, expertness will show you the way of earning money, will give you reputation and it will provide you highly respect in the society. So, don't waste a single minute. Instead of wasting time in useless videos or games, use the time to enhance your knowledge and be the master of your field.
And the last one is , knowledge & behavior.
. ” Education is the manifestation of knowledge which turns our inner eyes towards light” – Pluto..
Be educated and highly knowledgeable. . Knowledge is the best way of reflecting our highly strong personality. . Knowledge doesn't mean getting great grade or marks in the examination. . Always remember we can't evaluate a person with his/her marks. Education means real and general knowledge.. Until you have knowledge about different type of topics . otherwise you will always be ingonred by the people in our society..Because Nobody likes wiseless person. Even knowledge is the powerful weapon to represent ourselves confidently in front of the society. And confidence is the first sign of a highly strong personality. . What you have to do to gain knowledge? We should read great books and learn from these books. As well as, be polite during communicate with people. Because the more we are polite, calm and respectful towards others we will also get the same return from them . .
All in all , these five skills if you apply in your daily life, I am quite assuming that everybody will gain highly strong personality ..I am sincerely grateful to all my lovable readers for keeping your patience and always being the valuable part of my discussion .. If anybody wants to share your opinion kindly share and I would definitely love to follow you back..
- Dalia.
How to deal with society:
12:30 a m.
3rd oct, 2021
The common nature of human being is sociality and it should be. Because we are the most important part of our society. Without society our reputation and identity is non-existent. Because society will respect us, society will judge us and as well as society will give reward us for our good deeds..So no matter how hard we put our efforts to overlook our society, but we can not deny the role of society in human’s life.. But now the thing I am going to elicit here is – “If society is the most important role to lead our life, then why does society sometimes take away our identity?” This is exactly going to be the main content of my discussion today. The article is dedicated to all people as we are all social animals. I expect to have a little patience from all my readers.
Is it true that society can make our identity? And if it is, then why we are suggested by highly successful people to overlook the society? Yes, it is absolutely right that society plays the leading role to make our identity and reputation. Because no matter how intelligent we are, no matter how smart we are but if society doesn't give us that respect what we deserve, then our life is meaningless. But inspite of this sometimes it's essential to stay away from the society for sometimes. Because nowadays our society is terribly becoming poisonous with so many negetive people. If we continuously spend our time with such negative people , then our life will be gloomy, fade and monotonous. So, I think sometimes it is extremely important to spend our time alone to avoid negative environment. Because negative environment and people are like eighteen of the trees. If it touches our heart and body - our ability, our thinking power and our mindset will totally be destroyed..Yes, we should spend quality time with our society, but it should only be surrounded by positive people who can encourage and show us the right way to reach our destination. Positive people are like medicine which can heal our body, soul and heart. Positivity is the strongest charger of our life. If we can fill our heart with positive thoughts and experiences, then our growthness is certain. We need to develop our ability to identify the differences between positive and negative environment and people. And with that we have to choose the right direction. I often notice that most of the people are very negative in our society. Even no matter how hard you work to add values for the society , but there will always be some negative people around us who love to discourage us , who love to put us down. ..So what we should do ? Let's take a few minutes further and let me explain it.
First of all, we should respect our society. Because if we don't respect our society, then people of society will not respect us. Secondly, we should definitely spend our quality time with society but there should only be positive people around us.And finally , we should get all negative people out of our life so that we can keep our mind strong, positive and healthy..Yes, some time we need to enter the cave to refress our mind and make a plan to find the way of reaching our destination.
I am heartily thankful to all my readers for giving me your precious time. I hope this discussion will definitely change your mindset and will help you to make a right decision how to deal with society to make your life stronger, healthier and brighter..
- Dalia.
Self-learning is the matter :
1:09 A.M.
8th August, 2021.
We all people have a common tendency of getting the highest position in every field where we are desirous of doing work,but we are actually incapable of getting that position. For example – ” If you want to become an ideal teacher, you should be an eligible person who is enough capable of thinking out of the box and working idealistically who indeed knows the way of teaching and is quite intelligent of using the appropriate path of transforming the life of many students”. Because if you are incapable of thinking out of the box, no matter how many degrees you have already achieved (like B.ED or M.ED) from reputate schools, institutes or colleges, but you won’t be able to change the society. Now you can ask me – Why have you actually mentioned about B.ED and M.ED ? Then I am completely ready to disclose the reason behind my statement with a very strong evidence. I have seen many students who have accomplished a lot of degrees from reputate colleges and have taken training of teaching but it is so unfortunate that they are entirely incapable of representing themselves appropriately and even they have lack of general knowledge . As well as they don’t know how to become an ideal teacher and how to inspire students ! Why does it happen? It usually happends due to only depending on bookish knowledges which are only included in the syllabus. . So we should be aware that before dreaming of any top position in any field in our life , first we need to develop the quality of being an unique person. We should work on ourselves. We should do focus on self-studies. Because I strongly believe that a person can’t transform our society until or unless he/she is considered an an eligible and an idealistic person who actually knows the way of teaching and enough wiser of transforming the life of many people which will definitely show our society a healthy and right direction.
Next is ,we all are quite familiar with the word of learning.. But what is the actual meaning of learning? Does it mean to accomplish huge degrees only? No, exactly here we most of the people and students are making mistakes...Bear it mind that no any piece of paper can enhance your intelligence and knowledge until you do self-study and it's called real learning. Learning means do work on yourself each and every single day, focus on your internal intelligence and personality, improve your communication skill, read self-development books and gain experiences from highly successful people who have already achieved their goals..And learn from them.Once you are habituated to work on yourself each and every single day, you will be amazed to see the breadth of your knowledge about many things which will provide you the highest capability and skill..After that slowly and gradually you will automatically reach the top of the position where you always had a dream to see yourself...
I am sincerely thankful to all my creditable readers for spending your very precious time.Hope it will add some values in your life. If anybody wishes to share your opinion kindly feel free to raise your hand I would surely get you back..
. – Dalia.
12:47 A.M
1st August, 2021.
Importance of daily writing in English:
According to me , writing is one of the most powerful procedures of enhancing the quality of our English language skill. I often notice that a large number of people in our society don’t prefer to write, but although they want to develop the level of their English language skills..If you are still in the category of those people who are intentionally overlooking writing or thinking about writing is absolutely unnecessary, then take a while and kindly go through the whole article. .
Daily writing is the most influential weapon of decreasing our syntax problem.. But how? Let me explain it... We all learners have a common problem of constracting the structure of sentence appropriately . When we write something, not all the time but sometimes we make some wrong sentences. If we reread our writing for the second time, we can easily find out the mistakes what we often make..And highly enthusiastic learners always want to enhance their skill and that is why they reread their writing and try to correct the errors which are made by them. And through this powerful procedure one can become good to great in English language.
Secondly, it can make us free from stress.. Although I am quite unwise about others but it is perfectly executable for me.. I love to write. So I often intend to share some practical experiences of my life or articles through writing. I am hopeful that all the readers of mine are quite aware of it..Actually daily writing is mostly impactful tool for me to be freed from stress . I am strongly opposed of being stressful all the time. Because I know that a stressful person can't concentrate on work properly. .So if I feel something which is becoming the biggest obstacle of concentrating on my works or studies , without thinking bit a minute I write down immediately to be freed from stress and it is workable also.. It has been proved many times in my life that when I feel to go into the cave, I actually don't want to go to the cave, I rather want to express my feelings through writing so that I can stay in the relaxation mood.
Thirdly, daily writing is an effective way of developing our imagination power. Normally we people are imaginative. .but we are not capable of expressing our imagination by speaking due to shyness. .Sometimes, the things we can't say, but we can explain the same things through writing. .Because during writing we are not scared of demonstrating our feelings, emotions or opinion. Also it is the way of developing our silencer nature. .Because during writing we are surrounded with a complete silence ambience. .And we are surely aware about the importance of being silent.. Silence is the source of being more imaginative and more powerful ..And that is why all successful people suggest us to do meditate.
There are countless benefits we can get from daily writing. But I am sorry for unable to discuss all points due to lack of time and space... Hope it is helpful for my readers. .I am warmly thankful to everyone for spending your precious time . If anybody wants to share your feedbacks or opinions, cordially welcome.. - Dalia.
Mindset of women in our society:
7:52 P.M.
21st July, 2021
I am quite active in social media. No matter how much I am busy, but I always try to spend enough time every day to know about the women’s life in our society. I am very proud of myself as a woman because a large number of women in our society are growing up day by day financially, physically and mentally. Even the good thing is that nowadays women are not being treated as a machine of conceiving baby in our society. Let me remind you again , I only intend to show about the normal girls or women. I am not talking about any actress or anyone else. I am a very simple lady. So I always think about simple and normal ladies and girls who have been dominating by male for a long time.. So when I see such a woman who is becoming independent with her honesty day by day, it makes me feel very proud..But it is also true that the more I feel proud of hard-working ladies, the more I feel sad to think about some women who are still oppressed by males in our society. I think if we strong women work collaborately to help them and support them , then perhaps it can be vanished .. but I want to share one another thing which is more dangerous and more unfortunate than it.
A large number of women actually don't want to do anything. They only want to get married, want to conceive babies and want to be oppresed by male and their husbands and that's the meaning of their life. ..Specially those women who are only looking after babies in their family. Let me share a story.... Just a few days ago I got a message from a friend via WhatsApp. She is not very close to me but her first text was - " When will you conceive baby ". I am also very naughty towards those people who get dare to meddle in my personal life. So
I replied – ” Without any man is it possible to conceive baby for a woman”? Tell me. And I am sure you have got my point ..
Then she said – ” I am sorry”.
I again wrote – For the next time don’t interfere in my personal life .. We will decide what will we do .. I haven’t given you permission to ask about my personal decision and life.. So be careful “..
It is so unfortunate that still a large number of women don't want be independent. They don't have any goal in their life. They have only one goal how to be dependent on husband or partner and look after babies. That's it..Today I am very clearly saying it to all who are very worried about our personal life , think twice before asking questions. Remember, we all are individuals. My suggestion to all women who don't want grow in their life , please develop the virtue of being oppressed by your families, partners and from your children too in future but kindly don't try to spread out your negative vibration in our society. .If you can't encourage women to grow in their life, please never give them wrong or poor suggestions..
I am heartily grateful to everyone for your time.. If anybody has any opinion kindly share your thoughts without hesitation.. - Dalia..
Intense attack of educated society on students:
5:26 P.M.
22nd July, 2021.
Covid- 19 has completely devastated our educational system and it’s absolutely true. Result has already been published and it’s so amazing that students have got great grades and marks. Although we are realizing very strongly that a large number of students have got unexpected marks which they actually don’t deserve. Even it should be. Because there was no any examination, no any evaluation and no any judgementation of justifying the quality of students.. So we shouldn’t be shocked to see their result. But I have one request to everyone not to troll or humiliate students. Because they are not the criminal of this situation.They haven’t created this situation.They never said to postpone their examination..Everything that is happening completely out of their control. If any student is happy to see his/her result or wants to share the news of his/her result with us, we shouldn’t humiliate him/her. We can only keep ourselves calm and quiet , but not humiliation. Even if we open our eyes very smartly, we will easily realize that a large number of meritorious students also appeared for the examination and the things they have lost without right evaluation, that’s completely beyond our imagination which is extremely miserable and painful. We don’t know how many students are crying alone at silent night.They might have started preparing themselves long before the government’s decision to postpone the exam was announced..So we probably don’t have the ability to realize the pain of them inside of their heart. It’s true that examiners are entirely unable to evaluate students properly but kindly don’t troll students. Because let me remind you again – students are not the criminal of this situation. So please don’t hurt them…
I am sincerely thankful to all my readers for spending your valuable time. I have shared my feelings and opinions. If anybody wants to share your opinions and feelings kindly share and I would surely love to hear... - Dalia.
What is Education: A brief discussion.
11:20 A.M.
10th July, 2021
What is Education :
We all know that education is the powerful weapon of being successful in our life..It is my strong belief that we all have very sharp and burning desire to become successful..But it is so unfortunate that, although some people in our society are indeed know the value of education, but they never want to be actual educated. In our society, most of us, actually out of the notion of the real value of education. Most of us think ourselves highly educated.But if we deeply get into the actual meaning of education, we will be shocked to see how much our society should be improved to revel the statement of the real meaning of education. At the time of walking on the road or travelling by bus, I cross over many situations and the scenary of the moments point me out very frequently and make me realize how much we should work on our thoughts and ourselves. During the journey of my life, I have seen many people who have already achieved highly appreciable degrees which they have been provided by the Universities, Colleges, Institutions and so on. But when I focus on their thoughts very carefully and quite deeply, I just shocked.
I think, people have to change their views of the real meaning of education.Education means it is not about showing of our degrees or certificates. Education means how much we are capable of understanding other people,how much we can support other people when they are in tough situations.Education means help people if they need and education means respect everyone, value everyone. Because if we don't respect others or if we don't give value others, then I think we should develop the quality of thick skin in ourselves.. Because it's the law of universe that we get those things as same as we invest. .I have seen many people who may not have highly appreciable degrees but they have amazing heart..They are always ready to help others, they always support others mentally, physically and financially if they need. But also I have seen many people who always try to avoid people if they think that they won't get any return from them... Our society is becoming self-centered. Everybody is searching for something. There is no unconditional love, friendship or relationship with people. And we think we are highly educated!! The quality of education is decreasing day by day, self-centeredness is increasing every single day. Good and honest people are being recognized as uneducated and feather-brained and dishonest people are being treated as intelligent and highly educated. My humble request to everyone kindly think about people deeply. Help others mentally if they need. If you want to get value, importance and respect from others- then do the same towards others. Remember, we love only those people who love us too, we like and respect only those people who like and respect us too. .So don't depend on only the books which are included our syllabus ,rather do study different types of books, spend time alone, think about who you are. .. With that respect yourself also, give value yourself too...Do understand others and make yourself real highly educated which is completely unique than everyone and everything.
I would like to express my thankfulness to all the readers of mine for spending your valuable time. I want to say to all that we should increase our degrees, we should read out study materials also but we should never forget our humanity. – Dalia…
THE DIRE CONSEQUENCES OF EDUCATIONAL SYSTEM:
7:04 P.M.
14th July, 2021.
In today’s world, the spine of our education has profoundly been broken down due to a terrible virus ( COVID-19). The quality of our education, the level of our learning, the evaluation of student’s justification have already been destructed. The quality of education is loosing its awareness and value day by day.. The awareness of education is being declined day by day..It seems like the future of our nation is going to be destroyed. Students are being deprived from the accurate environment of education.. Children are being deprived from their childhood enjoyment in schools. Everything seems ups and downs. As if the learning process is going to be spoiled..Although online learning procedure is being executed very profoundly, but the infrastructure of education is actually decreasing. .No any answer sheet of examination is being checked by the examiner. .So how will teach teach in future? What the new generation will serve for our society? If they don’t learn anything, how will they work to develop the improvement of our society? Children are being badly addicted with Android phones..Even the most pathetic thing is that- children have got an excellent opportunity to force their parents for bringing mobile phone for them.. And parents are helpless. As a result, little little children and teenagers are deeply being attracted and addicted with wrong things.. On the one side, parents are thinking that their children are doing class, but on the other side, they are watching something else…. Some adult people have clearly stated that they are being habituated with mobile phone for 24 hours..Without cell phone they can’t do anything. Although online learning is very helpful for adults but sometimes adults are also crossing their limits. .And it’s very natural of being distracted with porn or something else for an adult person who is completely alone in a room for 24 hours.There is a quote in Islam
“Satanic desire awake in the brain of a lonely man very quickly”…
That’s why we should be busy with our task if we are alone ..We should use our time for growing up in life. But the question is how can we control ourselves! Because if we adults are not enough aware about education and future, then how can we show the way of being successful to our children?? I know it sounds quite rude and strong, but it's true. So ultimately the quality of education is being declined each and every single day..In this article I have only mentioned about the consequences of our education. .If anybody wants to share your opinion kindly write down in the comment section below.
Thank you !
11:20 A.M.
10th July, 2021
What is Education :
We all know that education is the powerful weapon of being successful in our life..It is my strong belief that we all have very sharp and burning desire to become successful..But it is so unfortunate that, although some people in our society are indeed know the value of education, but they never want to be actual educated. In our society, most of us, actually out of the notion of the real value of education. Most of us think ourselves highly educated.But if we deeply get into the actual meaning of education, we will be shocked to see how much our society should be improved to revel the statement of the real meaning of education. At the time of walking on the road or travelling by bus, I cross over many situations and the scenary of the moments point me out very frequently and make me realize how much we should work on our thoughts and ourselves. During the journey of my life, I have seen many people who have already achieved highly appreciable degrees which they have been provided by the Universities, Colleges, Institutions and so on. But when I focus on their thoughts very carefully and quite deeply, I just shocked. I think, people have to changed their views of the notion of education. Education means it is not about showing of our degrees or certificates. Education means how much we are capable of understanding other people, how much we can support people when they are in tough situations. Education means help people if they need and education means respect everyone, value everyone. Because if we don't respect others or if we don't give value others, then I think we should develop the quality of thick skin in ourselves.. Because it's the law of universe that we get those things as same as we invest. .. I have seen many people who may not have highly appreciable degrees but they have amazing heart..They are always ready to help others, they always support others mentally, physically and financially if they need. But also I have seen many people who always try to avoid people if they think that they won't get any return from them... Our society is becoming self-centered. Everybody is searching for something. There is no unconditional love, friendship or relationship with people. And we think we are highly educated!! The quality of education is decreasing day by day, self-centeredness is increasing every single day. Good and honest people are being recognized as uneducated and feather-brained and dishonest people are being treated as intelligent and highly educated. My humble request to everyone kindly think about people deeply. Help others mentally if they need. If you want to get value, importance and respect from others- then do the same towards others. Remember, we love only those people who love us too, we like and respect only those people who like and respect us too. .So don't depend on only the books which are included our syllabus ,rather do study different types of books, spend time alone, think about who you are. .. With that respect yourself also, give value yourself too...Do understand others and make yourself real highly educated which is completely unique than everyone and everything. I would like to express my thankfulness to all the readers of mine for spending your valuable time. I want to say to all that we should increase your degrees, we should read out study materials also but we should never forget our humanity. - Dalia...
Value of Time :
9.20 a.m.
20th May, 2021.
Due to tiredness I got up little late today..I wasn’t getting proper attention reading book like other days. I thought , I wouldn’t read today or I would read at night. But, when I looked at the clock was hanging on the wall of my hall room, it made me sense the value of time which is always more important to me than everything. On that moment, only one sound knocked my heart that I am not sure whether I will be survived till the night or not. And amazingly, when I again looked at the clock, I was shocked that 30 minutes had already passed by then while I was deciding whether I would read or not at the moment. Exactly it happens with us every day. We take a long time to make right decision but time, never waits for us..No matter, how much troubles come in our life, how much difficulties or tough situations appear in front of us, but time never waits for anyone. We also have to be like time. We have to be first like time, we have to flow like water. Because the more we will flow, the more we will be clean and fair. As a result, we will add more and more experiences in our life and with that our maturities and personalities will be more impressive and attractive. So, after drawing a very neat and clean picture in my imagination I immediately opened the book forcefully in spite of being out of attention properly and started reading. After reading almost ten pages of the book, I got peace really. Because I earned some knowledges what I was just going to miss a few minutes ago..
Hope it has been cleared to all how important time is to us.We shouldn't waste our time.. We will get enough time to attend marriage anniversary, to make gossip and so on.. but time once gain, never regain. Do use your time and move on like flowing water and make assure yourself the best reward is waiting for you.. - Dalia...
Positivity can conquer all negativities
18th May, 2021
Positive thinking is an optimistic state of our mind.It sounds so amazing and enchanting too. But we are oftenly surrounded by a terrible and a negative ambience where people are profoundly desperate to spread out the dangerous poison of negative touch.Consequently, we are truly victimized by such a dreadful negative environment. And as a result, we easily invite anxieties, fears and insecurities in our lives. The primary hindrance of our happiness is the highest number of negative people and environment filled with toxic thoughts around us .So at the point of my view, , it is certain neccessary to remain when it is about to choice a great and peaceful life. But unfortunately, we have strongly recognized the way of being unhappy and depressed rather than being happy and optimistic. This is exactly we do which is wrong. So from today, we will have to be committed towards ourselves and will have to fight against all venoms filled with negetive emotions and thoughts so that we can accomplish that happiness we actually deserve.We need only a little positivity, alter mindset and profound insight by which we can conquer all adversities usually attack us from the territory of negative atmosphere. - Dalia...
The way to one step further in life: Possibility
8:01 P.M.
17th May, 2021.
Although the situation is extremely tough, yet we need to be optimistic enough to get back that enlightened world we have lost.There is no doubt that I am very worried about the future of our education. Although nothing can be more important than a human’s life, yet I can’t make my mind at all. Because I have already made a strong resolution for my future.But my scheme is not being worked as same as the way I wanted. Flowing is my nature. It sounds pretty good and pleasant to step forward slowly and gradually at home, but I prefer to a compatible ambience to learn more and amplify to know a new culture which is absolutely impossible through online class..But still with my positivity, every day I am working on myself to develop my skill according to my efficiencies.
On the other hand, every day I try to create an image of the future of the children. Whenever I ask someone to know about the study of their children, the answer I get from them is really pathetic..They express their miserable feelings and describe by saying - " Our children are not getting energy and concentration to get into their studies engrossly"... It sounds too painful..
An another sad thing is - There are some people and parents in our society who don't take any action to improve the skill of their children.I have seen such a people too.My recommendation for them that kindly do help your children and teach them at home. Because I believe if we can make a strong purpose to develop our society and our children then it can definitely be done. We shouldn't forget that apart from schooling education a big improvement we can develop without a particular institution or school too. Because in schools, colleges and universities no any teachers teach us how to develop our confidence, how to overcome fear , how to inspire everyone which are the most important qualities to become successful in our life. So, instead of wasting a little time we adults and parents should teach our kids to develop their confidence, humanities, courage and so on.. These all qualities one must have to develop to rich the brow of the hill...
I am sincerely thankful to all my beloved readers for spending your valuable time to read it out. Just be positive, do work each and every single day. Because if we work on ourselves, then our children also can learn to see us and we don't have to scold or force them, they will automatically be engaged with themselves to develop their skills.We should remember that children are the master of imitating.
- Dalia..
An Uncertain future
Today, the world is going to be depopulated due to a dreadful touch of COVID-19. A large number of people have already lost their beloved ones.My sincere sympathy for all who have already left the world by the touch of COVID-19.But unfortunately it is still increasing day by day and our future is uncertain today..And our educational system is suffering the most this time.
Children are loosing their energies and concentrations. Even its natural I think really. All schools, colleges, universities are completely inactive. All classes are going on through online. But it is very difficult for children to pay attention on studies very attentively through online. Then what to do ? So, won’t class ever start in offline? What is exactly going to be happened? Won’t children ever get proper educational system or environment to create their bright futures?With that, what about our dreams too? What about our resolutions we have made to work on it ? I am hopeless really. I can’t see the future of our new generation . I can’t see the light around me..What is the future of our education? Education can make us better human beings. Besides education I can’t see the light of us. It seems an uncertain future is waiting for us. I am becoming pessimistic day by day ! I am loosing my heart! Just a question- What is our future? When I get up in the morning it seems a dark world is calling me up and saying- be ready for go to the hell..I cry at a silent midnight. My heart burst into tears..Just a single question- What is our futures? Is it uncertain really or still have some hopes?
Dalia- is an Instructor of Spoken English.She has completed her Master Degree from the University of Calcutta in Comparative Literature.Currently she is a professional Online Spoken English Teacher..
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